Sports & Other Things Important

Your testosterone level may make you think that you can take clothes off of a girl that you just met! Is it so easy, after all? Your girl friend may be a better alternative but pure casual can be a little problem.

As if we are different species, the girls and boys have very different perspective. Boys are just wanting to race to climax whereas the girl would always look at more delayed pleasure. Rushing does not work.

You need to plan. Plan ahead. Talk to her that you are planning a date together, this weekend. Build up. Send her flowers before. May be some chocolates. Send her a romantic movie.

Change your attire to make you look more outgoing. Whether in your house or outside, dispose off the cellphone, pager, pda or anything. Surround the atomphere with smooth scent May be candles or flowers.

Have a detailed and lengthy dinner and do not rush. Talk about the nice opportunities you had together. Do not talk religion or politics or sex, even. Wine would add to the tone.

Keep the soft music, soft lights in the background, as you retire to the bedroom. If your relationship allows, gift her new, sheer lingerie or something very personal. That should set the stage.

Get some cashews, raisins or berries and smooth ice cream just before hitting the bed. Give her a massage in the shoulder area, feet, forearms. Kiss her on the neck, back of the neck and shoulders. Do not rush to the pressure spots. You should have invoked enough response that you can be on cruise control. Let things happen and passions run. This would be the expression of love.